School's almost over. Just need to hang on these last few weeks and get through finals. Think I can do it? Stress is piling up, but a sense of relaxation and distraction keeps coming over me. I can't concentrate on work with such good weather outside. It already feels like summer... However, I need to get back into the swing of things.
We also had prom recently. It was a big day for me. My date was... guess who? Jack! It was a very pleasant day and Jack made the whole thing super fun for me. We are now really good friends and I'm keeping him in mind as a future life partner. Plus he's taller than me which is really a big accomplishment. One appreciates a guy who can sweep her off her feet, literally. He is just the right amount of funny and serious and understands just what we girls like.
For future reference guys, I've compiled a list of do's when it comes to treating girls:
1. PLAN!! We enjoy spending time with you guys, but we expect you to make the first move. Sorry, it's just a traditional thing and you're gonna have to get used to it. Ask us out on dates or just to hang out at your place. We don't mind where or when or what we do so long as we are doing it with you.
2. Talk. I know we girls are known far and wide for our ability to talk, but we'd appreciate it if you carry the conversation sometimes. Even our unsatiable voice-boxes can get tired and yes, our ingenious minds can run out of things to say. Start with simple questions about us or to make it even easier on you, just answer our questions, but not with one word answers. Tell us a story or ramble. We certainly won't mind and we want to get to know you better.
3. Be considerate of our needs. I know this one may be tricky, but girls don't always want to kiss all the time or go on more formal dates. We have the most fun when we're doing some of our favorite hobbies or running around and laughing our heads off, basically what we normally do everyday. Do something that you would normally do with your sister (besides teasing). Maybe she even likes sports or videogames, but again make sure we're doing something that we're comfortable with. Yes, we girls will do many things to please you because we are that amazing, but if you really like her, you'll do many things to please her.
4. Don't show off. Usually it just embarrasses you. It works better if you just be yourself. Still try to impress her of course. We can get bored pretty easily with the same person everyday. Vary it up and do't be afraid to express your opinions, unless she really happens to hate your oppinion.
5. Be a gentleman. Walk us to our door. Hold a door open for us. Pull out our chair for us. Offer to take our jacket. Don't assume we know where to go or what to do with our stuff. Although most girls prefer to do things on their own. A little help here and there is appreciated. Of course above all, NEVER assume that we girls are weak. Often, we are far stronger than we appear. It is better to have a mutual relationship than a controlling one and you are not the boss in the relationship. Work together, be best friends, and be willing to listen and support her, even if she complains a little excessively.
Thanks for all you do guys. I still feel like we girls have it tougher than you, but we appreciate you making our lives easier. Keep smiling!
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